I read a fair amount, fifty or sixty books a year, mostly non-fiction, a significant minority of them relating to life skills and self-improvement in some way
One of the grandaddies of all modern self-help books is Alcoholics Anonymous, written largely by William G. "Bill W." Wilson in 1939. With more than 30 million copies in print, it's the origin of the countless 12-step programs in the world and a classic of the genre*.
Angela Duckworth's Grit might be the second-best self-help book I've ever read.
The MacArthur "Genius Grant" recipient has been studying the subject of success for years, and in her book she doggedly (grittily?) dismantles the essential elements of succeeding, all of it based on her research or the research of others. I love her ideas and concept. The simple morphology of job/career/calling is interesting if maybe not groundbreaking, but the sections on goal levels and "purpose" blew my mind. Simple, clear, but, in my opinion, correct.
There's a lot of power in just plain being right.
Think it's not relevant to photography? It's especially relevant to photography. Think flexibly, apply the ideas to your photography, and it might be the best and most relevant not-about-photography photography book you've ever read**. It's about the first principles photographers need to think a lot more about.
Dang
Unfortunately, I scored very low on the Grit Scale—a test you can take in the book—lower than 90% of the population.
You know what they say: Oh well.
On the other hand, I do very well on the concept of practice. I made up my mind to be a writer in the 9th grade (I remember where I was standing when I made the decision), and none other than Saul Bellow told me how to practice, in 1976. And I've been writing more or less every day ever since. I'll bet there have been whole years in which I didn't miss a day. I'm not the kind of writer I ever envisioned, but still, I am one. It's something.
What I've been missing, in Angela Duckworth's terms, is a top-level goal.
Not insignificantly, the book is also a bit of an upper. It's inspiring. It left me feeling energetic and hopeful, feeling good. It's not about talent after all, not about genius; it's about grit.
I gave a copy of Grit to my son. (He likes audible books, so he'll listen to it.) I wish I could give out a dozen every month. Suck the good ideas out of this and it will stand you in good stead, I'll bet.
Highly recommended. Get Grit. You'll thank me.
Mike
* "The Big Book," as it's called, is brilliant and still useful, if also somewhat dated and showing its age—see the en passant review in The New Yorker, April 2, in the article "Whiskey and Ink" by Gary Greenburg, p. 84 (the article has a different title online, which seems to be a thing with The New Yorker).
** I want to thank Frank DiPerna for having us read Zen and the Art of Archery in my third year of photography school. "Read it as if it were about photography, as if it's about aiming a camera instead of aiming a bow and arrow," Frank advised us. I did. It works that way. Ever after, I've had the skill of reading books about disparate disciplines as if they applied to photography. It was a lesson that has kept on being useful.
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Emil Aaltonen: I can highly recommend mounting the Grit lens on a The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People camera body. It’s my go-to setup. The two are a perfect match. Or at least, as the saying goes, IMHO."
Mike, as you mentioned the Zen and the Art of Archery, I would like to bring your attention to a short article of an excellent Russian photo writer - 'Tao Te Ching And Photography' http://www.hobbymaker.narod.ru/Fiction/03_TaoTeChing_n_Photography_English.htm
Posted by: Mark Berman | Thursday, 01 November 2018 at 12:59 PM
"How to Win Friends and Influence People" came out in 1936.
Posted by: KeithB | Thursday, 01 November 2018 at 01:36 PM
Reading, thanks for the tip :)
Posted by: marcin wuu | Thursday, 01 November 2018 at 02:58 PM
Well, I can't yet comment on Grit the book. However, one of the few things that has felt like an insight to me in my life is realizing that "talent" or "intelligence", some sort of inherent ability to do well at some kinds of things, while it may exist, is not something I have any control over; whereas learning to apply myself, to buckle down and work on things I want to accomplish, is a thing I can learn to do, build habits of doing, and it will serve me strongly at any "talent" level. (Knowing this helps...well, probably almost as much as you might think it would. Yeah.)
I think that two of the ways parents mis-serve their children arise from this.
On the one hand, confirming kids in thinking they do well because they are talented seems to lead to the kids thinking they won't have to work at things. Most people who are "smart" early in life (I knew a lot in college and I know a lot in science fiction fandom; my whole bubble starts with MENSA-level smart as the base for being taken semi-seriously, and the people who impress us are off the scales) eventually come to a place where they realize that in this room they're average, and the people who work harder do better. Some buckle down and work, some fail, either traumatically or pleasantly. Forming better working habits earlier is easier.
(The other, opposite failure is to be so devoted to encouraging the child to focus and work that you end up belittling every single accomplishment they make, often leaving them with totally crippling self-image issues. I know a lot of victims of that, too.)
Posted by: David Dyer-Bennet | Thursday, 01 November 2018 at 03:45 PM
I didn't start out to be a writer either; I wanted to be an Astronomer but discovered there were few jobs and little remuneration. Then I became a tech peddler and found it was fun, satisfying and lucrative.
Along the way, I did lots of writing. Not creative writing but communicating ideas.
I learned in school I was not a creative writer but I was good at communicating. I guess I also gave grit. Last year I did a 300 page highly technical book in 90 days. I'm working on book #10 (inspired by Mike) and have 3 magazine articles due in the next 2 weeks- that's fun to me!
My mind doesn't work when told to sit down and write X hours per day the way some authors recommend. I have a project goal and want to get it done and move on to the next project.
That makes mean wonder about how I deal with photography. Over the years I have had projects to document particular things, then I move on.
BTW, this fits the definition of a "product" person as opposed to a "process" person - I want to see the end result not just enjoy doing something..
Posted by: jh | Thursday, 01 November 2018 at 03:51 PM
My wife is a positive education practitioner and would also recommend "Positivity" by Barbara Fredrickson. After (reluctantly) reading it I have managed to apply the common sense practices to my everyday life to great effect.
Posted by: Rod | Thursday, 01 November 2018 at 04:52 PM
This is a somewhat sideways look at your topic, this is about 'excellence' in a field. I first ran into Scott Miller while working as a director in the A&D field, trying to get better outcomes. As his interests moved from clinical excellence to excellence in general I sort of followed along. (In reading stuff I mean) You might find this interesting.
https://www.scottdmiller.com/expertise-and-excellence/
Posted by: Ray L Hudson | Thursday, 01 November 2018 at 06:36 PM
I grew up poor. Still am
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/answer-sheet/wp/2016/05/10/the-problem-with-teaching-grit-to-poor-kids-they-already-have-it-heres-what-they-really-need/?utm_term=.5bfd18bb2fe5
Posted by: Sean | Friday, 02 November 2018 at 03:58 AM
Slavoj Žižek:
“Let us engage in a mental experiment by way of trying to construct proverbial wisdom out of the relationship between terrestrial life, its pleasures, and its Beyond. If one says “Forget about the afterlife, about the Elsewhere, seize the day, enjoy life fully here and now, it’s the only life you’ve got!” it sounds deep. If one says exactly the opposite (“Do not get trapped in the illusory and vain pleasures of earthly life; money, power, and passions are all destined to vanish into thin air–think about eternity!”), it also sounds deep. If one combines the two sides (“Bring eternity into your everyday life, live your life on this earth as if it is already permeated by Eternity!”), we get another profound thought. Needless to say, the same goes for its inversion: “Do not try in vain to bring together eternity and your terrestrial life, accept humbly that you are forever split between Heaven and Earth!” If, finally, one simply gets perplexed by all these reversals and claims: “Life is an enigma, do not try to penetrate its secrets, accept the beauty of its unfathomable mystery!” the result is no less profound than its reversal: “Do not allow yourself to be distracted by false mysteries that just dissimulate the fact that, ultimately, life is very simple – it is what it is, it is simply here without reason and rhyme!” Needless to add that, by uniting mystery and simplicity, one again obtains a wisdom: “The ultimate, unfathomable mystery of life resides in its very simplicity, in the simple fact that there is life.”
[That's great, and thank you.
In the fellowship I'm a part of, however, we might say that each of those things has the potential to help somebody if it's what they need to hear at the time. The idea we have is that if you listen to everybody you're likely to find solace, wisdom, sympathy or consolation somewhere sooner or later. Even at the root level--the way memory works, some think--we mine for gold: we are wired to save or attend to what has value to us and shunt all the rest aside. --Mike]
Posted by: Leift | Friday, 02 November 2018 at 04:35 AM
The chance of dying in a plane crash or winning the lottery are about equal. Both would solve all my problems. Not a single self help book will make any difference.
Posted by: Svein-Frode | Friday, 02 November 2018 at 07:23 AM
Mastery by George Leonard is a classic.
Posted by: C.R. Marshall | Friday, 02 November 2018 at 11:29 AM
Dear Mike
Are you sure you don't possess grit? I think you did a very good job as a single parent. Not an easy task.
Posted by: Paul | Friday, 02 November 2018 at 01:11 PM
On 7 habits, Steven Covey in SLC Airport was an ass to the parking lot payment attendant as he tried to weasel his way out of paying what he owed - I would never buy anything of his. As he bitched and cursed at her the guy with him asked "which of the 7 habits are you exhibiting now, Steve"?
He was really obnoxious, rude and showed what a cheapskate he really is.
Posted by: Daniel | Friday, 02 November 2018 at 01:14 PM
A slight aside. Google search is getting very sophisticated.
I typed in "Is Angela Duckworth related to Tammy Duckworth" (the United States Senator and veteran), and got back a gif of Angela Duckworth in person answering the question at the top of the results. Take a look at how it is done.
https://www.google.com/search?q=is+angela+duckworth+related+to+Tammy+Duckworth&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&client=firefox-b-ab
It's really neat—but I'm not entirely sure I like it...
Posted by: Mani Sitaraman | Friday, 02 November 2018 at 08:36 PM
". . . the essential elements of succeeding . . ."
Definition please of "success".
Posted by: Moose | Saturday, 03 November 2018 at 01:09 PM